In all the years this story has been gestating, I have often wondered at its stubborn insistence on being told, its refusal
to sink gracefully into the gentle limbo of faint memory. So many times the writing has been put aside, sometimes even out
of mind, for months or years; but always it has resurfaced, clamored, persisted. Until at last, the busy years of family and
career demands being done, it rose to dominate my days, and finally emerged in words on paper.
It was a long process. Life takes us, moves us, uses us. A husband falls ill, grandchildren are born, the snowdrops
and daffodils push up through the heavy mulch of leaves and demand attention to free them to grow. And while we answer the
demands of people and plants, of houses and jobs and health and talent, our lives move on to new conditions, pulling us along
perforce. While we dream of how we want to shape a life, we have already lived it, and it is gone.
Why then, in the midst of the engrossing now, why this passion to remember, this drive to resurrect the trials and crises
of so long ago? Perhaps the need to acknowledge those enormous efforts to survive, to record them on the register of human
struggles against dehumanizing forces. So many later catastrophes now overlay these ancient agonies - could they still be
relevant? Yet it's always been the same struggle - during revolutions, wars, holocausts, genocides, on whatever continent
and in whatever era - always the same struggle of the single human spirit against the massed baleful power of ideology.
In his book A View of All the Russias, Laurens van der Post says: "No man is free to commit himself to an honest future until
he has first been honest about the past." Though most of my future is now in the past, still this need to explore those desperate
days persists. Before I cease to remember, it seems necessary to bear witness, to pass on to my descendants - and to all the
other descendants of the people who lived through those overwhelming events - a sense of how it was. So aware of the power
of history, I am impelled to show how much it shaped those who shaped and still shape today's young.
We take so much for granted. We see an old church, poised perfectly on a hill commanding the crossroads, its Wren steeple
a lovely exclamation point in time. Do we ever think of how this spot was chosen, cleared, who it was that imagined the perfect
site? So in our lives, we take for granted what people are, without dreaming of what made them so, what worlds shaped them.
This is the question I want to probe. What happens to people under severe duress,
under continuing extreme pressure? Why do some individuals rise magnificently to the challenge, discover unsuspected powers
that make them function better than before? While other uncertain souls, terrified in the face of their own inadequacy, with
no confidence in their own will, withdraw from the battle and lose the chance to grow into strength, stamp themselves "imperfect"
and "useless" and never test the extent of their powers. Their chances of survival are minimal, and if they do live, they
are broken and helpless for the rest of their days.
Phyllis Rose wrote in Biography
as Fiction: "The way people manage to live their lives without prior rehearsal is amazing and insufficiently wondered at."
In a crisis situation such as existed in Russia in the second and third decades of the last century, the way life was managed,
especially by the millions caught helplessly between opposing forces in which they had no part, seems even more incredible.
Such a revolution is really a struggle between the powerful, such as nobles
and wealthy landowners, on one hand, and the poor, tired of living on a bare minimum in an inefficient economy, on the other.
Yet the growing middle class was in many ways the chief sufferer in the conflict. The triumphant proletariat tarred the bourjui
with the same brush as the gentry, although the intelligentsia didn't have the resources of the rich and landed. They were
powerless to maintain their status in the new regime, though they had not been exploiters. In fact, many were liberal and
welcomed the first steps to democracy; but they suffered as much as the upper classes and lost everything that had been so
The life one had to live in those years bore no resemblance
to anything one might call "normal." A climate of tragedy and terror is unreal because it is unnatural. In ordinary life hunger,
death, and fear are occasional traumas, absorbed into the daily fabric of existence. But when they become too large a part
of life, the fabric of reality breaks down.
In the decade after 1917 in Russia,
civil war, famine, and a brutal campaign of terror created such a climate. What a monk of Cluny wrote in 1040, at another
of what historian Barbara Tuchman calls "one of history's ebbs," would serve as an equally apt description nine centuries
later: "What can we think but that the whole human race, root and branch, is sliding willingly down again into the gulf of
Cut off from their roots, material and spiritual, deprived
of family ties and accustomed rituals, people lose their sense of self, and of their place in an ordered universe. They are
cast adrift. Trying to remake a life is almost impossibly difficult without the comforting anchors of faith, family, and community.
Now as I approach the end of a lifetime that began in a year of cataclysm (1914),
the same unholy wars against the human spirit go on unabated. My generation has been witness to starving war refugees, the
dispossessed of the Great Depression, the sacrificed millions of the monstrous holocaust under Hitler, the victims of China's
Red revolution, the dissenters tortured in Latin America's political wars, the desperate boat people of Indo-China, and now
again the barbaric ethnic cleansing in Rwanda and Bosnia . . . the endless list grows with the years.
In the cause of these and all the other helpless souls offered up to the dark gods of destruction, accounts like this one
are minute counterblows struck for humanism - futile perhaps, but necessary nevertheless.